It’s the most wonderful time of year, and we at Defector are proud to bring back our series discussing some of the most, uh, available holiday movies. Sabrina Imbler: Thanks so much, Kelsey and Alex, ...

I love him dearly and have allowed our sexual relationship to follow his guide, because he is the more vanilla, less ...

I am a medical student in my 30s. I live with my boyfriend, “John,” who is a registered nurse. Neither of us have student ...

MY boyfriend and I had sex in his beach hut. It was small and draughty but we had nowhere else private to go. Inside, huddled under the blankets, with the sound of the waves and a ...

I don't know what it is about Thanksgiving that seems to bring out the worst in some people. Every year, we collect trashy ...

Gina and Timothy Chiles have five children together – Tajmen, Tyrus, Jazmin, Jade, and Jordan – with the Olympian being the youngest of the lot. As per People, Tajmen is married with three sons. Tyrus ...

Instead, we travel the world and rent out small studio spaces. Living a minimalist lifestyle is right for us financially and aligns with our values. I'm 30, and I have no plans to ever buy a house — ...

If someone so much as says “my boyf–” on social media, they’re muted. There’s nothing I hate more than following someone for fun, only for their content to become “my boyfriend”-ified suddenly. This ...

I have a bit of a unique situation here. I’m in an age-gap AND long-distance relationship. I am in my early 30s, living elsewhere. My boyfriend is almost 20 years older, living in New England. Before ...

Is it awful to want a partner who is equally or more successful than you? I recently broke up with my boyfriend, who made $40,000 less than me. I earn $110,000. He is 36 and I am 30. I’ve never been a ...

I lived in Madison, Wisconsin, for over 30 years and then moved to Iowa City when my rent got too high. Soon, I realized I'd lived in Iowa for two years without making a single new connection. I ...

After my longtime partner and I split up, I got a big, comforting dog. But in a moment of deep sadness, I needed a human being. By Jen Horsey The pandemic was a rough time for all of us, and I decided ...